All parents are eager to find activities that their kids enjoy. Sports have a way of captivating our attention, parents and kids alike. So when our children show an interest in a particular sport, we want to do our best to help them succeed and play for as many years as they desire. This longevity can be dependent on surviving try-outs or finding competitive teams to invite our child onto their roster. So one day, passion alone will not be enough. Talent, skill, and knowledge are essential for our young athletes to play longer and get the most out of the athletic experience.
For decades young musicians that have gone on to play their instruments through college, on scholarships, and even play professionally have been the recipient of weekly lessons from expert instructors from a very young age. When it came to sports, golfers and tennis players from affluent families benefitted from on-going private instruction. These kids led school squads and received offers to play in college. In recent years however, regardless of the sport, opportunities for young players to train with professionals in small groups or privately have become available in even small communities and in some cases are very affordable. Parents should take advantage! (warning! Writer bias!)
The thinking that “a kid either has it or he doesn’t, and all the instruction in the world won’t change things” is a bit pessimistic. Why does the high school basketball coach’s son grow up to have the best jump-shot in the state? Because he’s had unlimited access to the gym, proper technique consistently demonstrated to him, and older role models to motivate him. A good personal instructor gives a young athlete similar advantages. When a kid gets to train with people who have played at an elite level, he or she should be energized and motivated. Similar fundamental instruction that fell on deaf ears when delivered from mom or dad might be suddenly be welcomed and applied. The pros can also identify weaknesses in a young player’s game that might not affect today’s success but would prohibit him from playing at higher levels in the future. Early intervention into these areas can translate into one day being able to letter in a high school sport.
Quality youth and school coaches can also have a huge impact on young players’ development. A few of these coaches actually discourage parents seeking private instruction for their kid. Really? Of course their frustrated to hear, “my other coach has me do it this way,” but the players getting the most practice with the best guidance will always get the most from their natural gifts. Is this coach going to forbid parents from working with their own kids? If the player’s school coach wants things a certain way, the private instructors can actually assist the player in making it happen. One state-championship winning coach once said, “I’ve got 20 players. I love when my players work with a pro outside of practice. Only makes my teams better.”